Easier said than done... but it has to be done...

Tis the season for heartaches huh? Had a conversation with a dear friend who is currently caught in a vicious triangle... No matter how strong and optimistic we can be in life, matters of the heart can surely render a person vulnerable...

Hope it gets easier ok....you know what you have to do....

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You know what is worse than a heart break?

Is knowing the guy you like, likes someone else. Worst of all, a fellow friend!

You want to know how that feels?

Take a knife, and stab yourself… then twist the knife around.

Best please to stab, the gut.

Slow and painful… and bleed to death. Till you eventually yank the knife out and place pressure on the wound.

Problem is, sometimes we don’t want to let go of the knife. Sometimes we think leaving the knife in there will make a difference to the situation. Which is never true.

It only makes you bleed more.

I know this is going to sound condescending… but cry it out.

A good cry and then pick yourself up and move on.

I know it is hard to keep looking / thinking that he thinks of her all times of the day and you are no where near.

But you stabbing yourself and bleeding – you think it achieves anything?

OK… I don’t mean to be so heartless…

I know you are hurting. But you subjecting yourself like this isn’t helping. And you avoiding them, well… at some point they will ask what is wrong. And what are you going to say? Time to find new friends?

Yes, I agree… it won’t be a lie… but you said yourself, friends are better and worth more then a guy. Because guys leave. Friends stay. Maybe not all… but most of the time they do.

At the end of the day you can’t blame them. They have no idea how you feel. And they are in their own world of emotions. How can you possibly expect them to see it from your perspective?

Unless you tell them? Which I know you won’t.

So you sit and bleed. And cry.

You do know right that at some point you brought this upon yourself? You sat there and you poured all this emotion on someone you knew wasn’t that keen.

You made him sound like he was… but you knew. And basically this just confirms your heartache.

So it is expected right?

Why torture yourself like this? Just let go……………

It is hard. But it has to be done.

So……… take the knife out. Let it go. Bandage that wound. Have a good cry. And move on……….